Shawn Achor delivered lectures on positive psychology in the most popular class at Harvard, where he is the winner of over a dozen distinguished teaching awards. He is one of the world’s leading experts on the connection between success and happiness. He was featured on the cover of Harvard Business review for his research on […]
Success Rules: Who Is Running You?
We have been exploring the Emotional Intelligence competency of Confidence or Self-regard. This Coach’s Corner is on how your thinking impacts your decisions, judgments and success. It is excerpted from one of the 10 tools to raise your Confidence in my book, Leading with Emotional Intelligence. As an Executive Coach, one consistent strategy I use […]
Self-Confidence Competency – Tools & Strategies
Excerpt from Leading with Emotional Intelligence: Strategies for Building Confident and Collaborative Star Performers (2011), Chapter Three, by Relly Nadler Confidence is the fuel that ignites other actions. This section provides the tools and strategies to help you become a Star Performer in the area of confidence. Self-Confidence is a building block for success throughout […]
Confidence Star Secrets – Early Learning Experiences
In writing Leaders’ Playbook and then Leading with Emotional Intelligence, I interviewed key leaders to find how they exemplified specific EI competencies. One person I coached was Henrik Fisker who exemplified the Confidence competency. His story and his practices can give us all some insight into the practices of a Star Performer. Henrik Fisker was […]
Confidence – Star Secrets #2
In writing Leaders’ Playbook and then Leading with Emotional Intelligence, I interviewed Henrik Fisker, then CEO of the luxury car company Fisker Coachbuild, LLC. His story and his practices can give us all some insight into the practices of a Star Performer. This is the second in the sequence of learning some of the 10 […]
Confidence – Star Secrets #3 with Henrik Fisker
This is the third in the sequence of learning some of the 10 Star Secrets in Confidence of Henrik Fisker. Here we will look at secrets 6-9. Fisker’s practices can give us all some insight into the practices of a Star Performer. Read our two previous Coach’s Corners to see Star Secrets 1-5. #6. Taking […]
Confidence – Star Secrets #4 with Henrik Fisker
This is the fourth in the sequence of learning some of the 10 Star Secrets in Confidence of Henrick Fisker. Here we will look at secret #10 and any pitfalls he identified for himself. Read our three previous Coach’s Corners to see Star Secrets 1-9. #10 Be Willing to Make Decisions That Are Exceptions to […]
Teamwork is an Unnatural Act
Teamwork is an Unnatural Act: Are Your Teams and Organizations Dumbed Down? (Excerpt from Relly’s Leading with Emotional Intelligence) Teamwork is very popular today in organizations, but it is an unnatural act that takes a strategy, discipline and practice. Most organizations talk about teamwork and put a group of workers together and say “you are a […]
Teamwork is an Unnatural Act: #1 Shared Vision
Team Ingredient #1 Shared Vision: What is natural is to have a blurry vision of where the organization is going. The vision is not communicated enough or shared throughout the organization. What is unnatural yet necessary is to create an inspiring vision for the future that is clean and informs all throughout the organization what […]
Teamwork is an Unnatural Act: #2 Trust Among Members
Team Ingredient #2 Trust Among Members: What is natural is to rely on yourself or your department and not expect much from others. What is unnatural yet necessary, is to develop an interdependency on others characterized by high trust and risk taking. Actions: Leaders develop trust by trusting their people. Leaders develop trust by being […]